Essay About American Teens And Forwarding Of Sexual Photos

Sexting and the Dangers of Pressing Send
Sexting and the Dangers of Pressing “Send” Sex texting, or more commonly known as sexting, involves the sending, receiving or forwarding of sexual photos or sexually suggestive messages through text message or email.  The way we communicate today has been revolutionized with the advances in technology, namely the Smartphone.  Rather than rely on flirting with someone of the opposite sex face-to-face like generations of the past, technology of the 21st century emboldens teenagers to increase the level of intimacy in a relationship from the palm of one’s hand.  While high school and college students send sexual messages for a variety of reasons, the act of sending a nude photo can be exciting for both the sender and receiver.  However, once the original message has left the source, the originator no longer has control over the material.  In some cases, these explicit images may be lost, forwarded, or used as blackmail after a nasty breakup.  As a result, there are multiple social, legal, and devastating risks involved when a teenager chooses to sext that have the potential to be avoided through increased awareness and understanding of sexting behaviors.        The age at which American teens acquire their first cell phone is growing younger and younger, increasing the likelihood and prevalence of sexting among high school students.  According to a survey by the PEW Research Center, 75% of all teens ages 12-17 own a cell phone that they use, not just for calling, but to access social media and to take and share photos. (Lenhart, 2009)   About 64% of young adults, ages 20-26, are sending or posting sexually suggestive messages.  (Yarber & Sayad, 2012)  Electronic devices of today’s digital age have changed the game of sexual exchanges.  Rather than go through the sometimes uncomfortable act of undressing in front of the opposite sex for the first time, teens are able to send a nude picture from a distance as a way to sexually experiment while easing into the physical act of sexual intercourse.  It is no surprise then that teens who participate in sending and receiving sexual images or messages are more likely to engage in sexual intercourse than their non-sexting peers.  Researchers at the University of Texas Medical Branch found that 76.2% of teens who were propositioned to sext admitted to having had sexual intercourse.  (Lohmann, 2012)  Nonetheless, many of these teens do not realize the potential and often serious ramifications of sending a provocative photo because they are sending it to someone they trust, usually a romantic partner.  In the vast majority of these cases, the picture lands only where it was meant to and no harm is done.  However, one must never assume that anything sent is going to remain private.  After all, nothing in cyberspace is truly anonymous.  When photos are sent as a result of pressure, the images are much more likely to be used vindictively.  According to a study of 18-year-olds by Elizabeth Englander, 12% were considered “pressured sexters” because the only reason they sexted was because they felt pressure to do so.  (Rosin, 2014)  This group also believed that if they participated in sexting, they would develop a sense of belonging amongst their peers or get a boyfriend that they wouldn’t otherwise have gotten.  Regrettably, pressured sexters are more likely to feel worse after sexting than other teens once they realize that they are being taken advantage of.  Furthermore, they may become less self-assured about their bodies or engage in high-risk sexual behavior, like unprotected sex or sex with multiple partners.  In schools where sexting is tantamount with the phrase “everyone is doing it,” girls especially may feel pressured to participate, sending nude photos to fit in with the queen bee or to gain approval from a crush.  In these cases, the photos are more likely to be shared with the intent to humiliate the victim for self-entertainment, which can result in legal consequences.