Bullying in Schools: Causes, Effects and Possible Solutions
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Pansy, nerd, drip, and creep: these are just a few of the horrible slurs that schoolyard bullies, and many other popular students, direct toward their ostracized, vulnerable peers in the hallowed halls that form the American public school system. In and of themselves, these malicious words can quickly erode the self-esteem of their victims; however, words are not the only tool employed in the oppression of unpopular students. Violence towards the weak and emotionally unstable is a common theme in many American schools, and it is a grave threat to those students who cannot readily defend themselves. Following the infamous Columbine High School shootings, in which two students, both victims of bullying, embarked upon a murderous rampage through their school, many schools have enacted zero tolerance policies towards planned, or even implied, violence within schools. However noble these policies are, they effectively allow bullies to continue their harassment of weaker students. School administrators then reserve the right to punish, and even expel, the weaker students who choose to defend themselves, whether vocally or physically, while ignoring the root cause of these insurrections. Whatever the reasons or methods, bullying in American schools is detrimental to the physical, intellectual, and emotional growth of the victims; bullied students are undoubtedly the “other” in schools, unable to seek help from school officials, which can leave the victims with emotional problems, and can lead to suicide and Columbine-style violence.
One of the largest hurdles in the fight against schoolyard bullying is teachers and school administrators who could not readily identify the bulk of student bullies.
From our vantage point as playground observers, we concluded that these poorly
regulated children comprised the most visible, but not necessarily the most
abusive aggressors on the playground. Model students sometimes held that
distinction; ones that teachers assured us were “no problem.” Based on these
students upstanding classroom behavior and engaging manner, few adults would
suspect the cruel behavior we observed. (Frey 410)
The teachers in Freys study would not believe that some of these “model” students engaged in the bullying of other students. Often, these “model” students are members of sports teams, or take part in other school-sponsored activities, and are able to subvert any reprimands for bullying by charming teachers and other school administrators and pretending to be “responsible” and “benevolent” students.
Frey acknowledges other obstacles in figuring out the causes, and thus the remedies, for bullying. “Students approaching secondary school become increasingly reluctant to
acknowledge being victimized” (Frey 411). Victims of bullies are habitually stereotyped as possessing social, mental, or physical inequalities that set them apart from the normal body of students. Television, movies, music, and other forms of media depict these victims as nerds, such as Steve Urkel, from the television show “Family Matters,” and Screech from “Saved by the Bell.” Most students do not wish to associate themselves with these stereotypes, and therefore tend to hide the ill-treatment they endure every day.
Bullying does not solely pertain to physical aggression, something of which most school officials can readily identify and intervene to stop or prevent.
Unfortunately, because relational aggressions are more covert and subtle than physical assaults, they may be far less recognizable to school personnel. Although repeated physical confrontation is clearly recognized as bullying, friendship manipulation and social exclusion are not easily identified. If these behaviors are not being recognized as bullying by school personnel, then they are not being successfully addressed in the school setting “Doing nothing is functionally equivalent to condoning violent behavior” (Elinoff Et Al. 891).
Social exclusion and friendship manipulation are just as damaging to the victim as is aggressive or violent behavior. To fully combat bullying, school officials must understand the true concept of bullying.
Another obstacle in Freys study was the bullies themselves. “Students who bully may attempt to coerce others into keeping bullying secret. After all, revelations of high levels of
intimidation and fear may elicit adult intervention and threaten the status of dominant
students” ( Frey 411). School officials are often unaware of the true depth of bullying because they do not see it on a regular basis. Victims may feel a sense of hopelessness because school officials do not understand the true implications of bullying. These students must often learn to deal with their victimization alone, whether by withdrawing socially and emotionally, inflicting pain upon themselves, or even resorting to violence.
The serious and damaging effects of bullying are very prevalent, but often ignored by school officials and other adults. “Research gathered on chronic victims of bullying suggests that they likely possess characteristic deficits in emotional skills … and that these deficits may contribute to the risk of later psychological dysfunction associated with victimization” (Craig Et Al. 226) These researchers propose that these “deficits in emotional skills” help victims deal with the emotional distress caused by frequent bullying. However, one can rightfully presume that these emotional problems do not fade away as the victim enters adulthood.
The act of bullying has long-term implications for both victims and perpetrators.
Negative impacts of chronic victimization include increased rates of truancy and
dropping out as well as different psychosocial and psychosexual relationships …
the impact of bullying on its victims includes a loss of self-esteem and feelings of
isolation which, according to new research, can last into adulthood (Dupper and
Meyer-Adams 352).
Childhood and the early teen years are formative periods in ones development, and the problems and emotional scars inflicted upon a child will most likely burden him or her for the remainder of his or her life.
There are times when youths are bullied to the point where they feel that they have no recourse other than violence or suicide. These notions often seem to be the only escape from the endless torment of their peers.
… the effect of bullying on violence and suicidality has probably received the
most attention, particularly in the press following Columbine. Students in schools
where bullying is common or where a “culture of violence” has arisen are more
likely to take weapons