The Art of Hospitality – the Greeks and the Odyssey
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Each culture treats strangers and guests with distinct differences from every other culture. One of the most hospitable cultures was that of the ancient Greeks, exemplified in Homers The Odyssey by both gracious hosts and guests. In Greece and The Odyssey, not only was good hospitality etiquette expected, but the added pressure from the conviction that the gods would punish the host if guests were treated without respect (whether they were poor or rich) further compelled excellent manners. The Odyssey illustrates the proper etiquette when dealing with guests.
Whether friend or stranger, when a guest of any sort arrived the host would greet them and offer them food and drink before any further conversation or engagement of any kind would occur. If the host had considerable wealth, a maid would bring out a basin of water in a “graceful golden pitcher” to rinse their hands, seen in Book I (line 160) when Athena visits Telemachus, again in Book 4 (60) when Menelaus takes Telemachus and Athena as guests, and also in Book 7 when the King of the Phaeacians greets Odysseus. Appetizers, meats, and wines are all brought out and laid before the guest, as their coming is seen as a celebration, as seen when Telemachus is hosting Athena, “A staid housekeeper brought on bread to serve them,/appetizers aplenty too, lavishwith her bounty./A carver lifted platters of meat toward them,/meats of every sortД (Book 1, 163-166) On several occasions, a particularly hospitable host offer the guest the choicest meet, even when they are entitled to it themselves: “Ð he passed them a fat rich loin with his own hands,/the choicest part, that hed been served himself.” (Book 4, 74-75) This occurs regardless of wealth; while Menelaus is rich, Odysseus swineherd is not, yet gives Odysseus the best of the roast, “Ðto Odysseus he presented the boars long loin/and the cut of honor cheered his masters heart.” (Book 14, 496-497)
It is not until after the guest has had their fill that the host may inquire about anything, and sometimes they do not partake in their entitlement to question their guest. In the case of the Phaeacians, no one asks Odysseus name until it has become increasingly imperative that they have that knowledge; they dont ask after days of hosting him, even preparing to take him to his home on Ithaca without inquiring his name, “Farewell, stranger, sirÐ May the gods grant you safe passage home to see your wife.” (Book 8, 454-457) This gentle hospitality continues, and may have lasted through if not for Odysseus weeping when Demodocus sings, which will bring Alcinous asking for his name, “Ð… Ever since our meal began and the stirring bard/launched his song, our guest has never paused in his tearsÐ… Come, tell us the name they call you there at home.” (Book 8, 606-618) Ironically, the Phaeacians are ideal to Greek standards of hospitality, yet do not host many guests due to their isolation.
A good host will not keep a guest longer than they wish to be kept, and a guest should not linger beyond the time they are welcome. Menelaus says this outright to Telemachus, stating, “Id never detain you here