Buddha Says Love
Essay title: Buddha Says Love
Buddha says love
Part 1
Stone asked, “Should I marry the person who I love? Or should I just marry the person who loves me?”
Buddha laughed, “Actually, the answer to this question is already in your mind. Thinking carefully, over the years, which person can make your life wonderful and colorful; which person can make you constantly moving forward even though you are in a harsh situation? Is it the person who you love or who loves you?”
Stones also laughed, “If so, why friends tried to persuade me to find the girl who I love to be my wife?”
Buddha said, “If you marry a girl who loves you but you do not love her, your life will be doomed to be a tragedy! One of the important parts in your life is chasing the woman who you love to complete your life. If you avoid the process, the pace of improvement would stagnation down, which means you give up completing yourself.”
Stone grabbed Buddhas word and said, “what if I catch the person who I love? Will be ……”
Buddha said, “Because she is your favorite, making her life happy and joy are deemed to be the greatest happiness in your life, therefore, in order to make her more and more happy, you will do your best effort. Happiness and joy has no limit, so your efforts will be no limit, will never stop.”
Stone said, “Well, I must suffer a lot.”
Buddha said, “So do you feel hard these years?”
Rock shakes his head and smile..
Part 2
Stone asked, “Since it is so, then is it necessary to treat the person who loves me?”
Buddha shakes his head and said, “Do you need your behaved treat you?”
Stone smiled, “I do not think so.”
Buddha said: “talk about your reasons.”
Stone answered, “My requirements of love are strict, that is, I do not expect my love mixes with sympathy and compassion. I demand her love is from her bottom of heart. Although sympathy and compassion and tolerance is also a kind of love; and brings a sense if happiness, it is abhorrence for me. If my beloved treat me like that way, then I would prefer her to ignore me, or directly refuse me.”
Buddha smiled, “Very good, you’ve got the answer.”
Part 3
Stone questioned, “Once I really loved a girl, in my mind she is the most beautiful woman in the world. Now I love a girl, but I can still find some other girls are beautiful than her. Why?”