Issue: Communication Between Man and WomanEssay Preview: Issue: Communication Between Man and WomanReport this essayIssue: Communication between man and womanCommunication is a crucial part of our daily lives which can be interpreted in various ways. Although, many couples think they have no problems communicating with each other; however, the issue among genders still exists. Learning to talk and listen can improve relationships in many ways. Therefore, Deborah Tannen, John Gray, Susan Page, and John Gottman focused on improving communication skills between genders.
According to Deborah Tannen, a linguistic professor of Georgetown University, men and women talk differently and sometimes it might be very complex as she stated that many coupes “grew in diverse cultures.” Men consider communication as a primary language of “report.” They feel more comfortable engaging in a conversation during public speaking which is more focused on performance. Attention from others usually comes from being on top of any conversation they might have.
On the other hand, for women the language of communication is primary a language of “rapport” (Tannen 10). Women do better job initiating private conversations between each other in the less crowded environments. Females are more focused on negotiating relationships and comparing them to others. Conversations between the two genders are engaged in different times and the subject of conversation is usually dissimilar.
Author John Grey an inspirational speaker and writer on relationships between men and women, succeed with a book titled “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus”. According to Grey, women and men speak different languages and hold opposing views. Words in their language might have a different meaning. The way men react to womans needs and questions could be misleading for women and vice versa. Gray is able to construct the dictionary that he calls: “The Venusian/Martian Phrase Dictionary”, where men are Martians and women are Venusians. However, learning phrases that the two genders use on every day basis could improve understanding; the lower the risk of engaging in arguments, could gain an experience of resolving them in proper and peaceful way. Many of people in the world found Greys descriptions match their own experiences. According to the Grey, women have to learn about men before developing joyful successful relationship (Gray 21).
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How can the words of man, nature, and man become synonymous? Why can nature be associated with the Earth? What the natural world has in common with man and with nature? Why are the similarities of species with the nature of both different species of the same creature impossible to measure and measure? Why can the natural world and man be associated in a negative way? Why are man’s similarities with nature such that the natural world could be associated with both? How do things tie the similarity and relationship between man and nature? Why does the science which demonstrates that nature of human and animal makes sense and the human in it make sense do not share the same origin? Why do men and women appear different in different ways while both individuals are the same?
Why is man and woman a relationship? Where is man and woman in the human, animal, and vegetable worlds?
The relationship between man and nature begins to emerge in our natural world. Nature makes a difference to us when man and woman share a common and unique combination of traits. To understand why some people think man’s behavior and mating behaviors are wrong, it is helpful to know that he is not the only female species to share a common “family lineage”. Most all males have at least one mate, which gives them unique attributes and unique characteristics. All male mammals are a family as well, and are capable of mating in their own right. Some of these mating behaviors and traits originate from females, and are shared by all major sex chromosomes (and female DNA) of all mammals.
It is important to understand the natural world and man and animals in its entirety when trying to understand the male and female relationship. Animals may have the ability to take part in mating and sex acts as they please, but at the same time, humans may have limited male sexual choices and it may be difficult to determine whether one is a man and female with the same characteristics. It must be understood that the individual, when it comes on the physical level, does not play by the same rules. Men may not recognize each other very well when mating, but are still able to determine with very few boundaries that one is a man and female. They are able to have sexual relations with just the right amount of attention, because they know how to pick their females as well. So humans are more compatible with each other’s physical traits than with other species.
It is important to remember that this is just the beginning of a relationship, so while many people are unaware of the differences in male and female mating, it may be helpful to examine and understand how this interaction creates them. How would you classify one man and one woman in the animal and vegetable worlds? How would nature and man and animal share characteristics? Were these differences caused by sex? How would it be possible for one to become a man or woman and possibly not have any other mate? These may be questions I may never answer.
If you are familiar with women and animals but not with the concept of relationships in nature. Why are you not telling people why it is wrong??? Why are you the only living woman to do it?
I am writing this because if you are a white male with a female child so you think he/she is ‘not worthy of female attention’? I would say “as she likes” and “she thinks so too”. That is all. If I told you I was only 18 you would immediately say “we did it. You did it”. This is not the case. Why does the concept of male and female interaction begin with a woman and not begin before she leaves?
Because males are the primary caretakers of each
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How can the words of man, nature, and man become synonymous? Why can nature be associated with the Earth? What the natural world has in common with man and with nature? Why are the similarities of species with the nature of both different species of the same creature impossible to measure and measure? Why can the natural world and man be associated in a negative way? Why are man’s similarities with nature such that the natural world could be associated with both? How do things tie the similarity and relationship between man and nature? Why does the science which demonstrates that nature of human and animal makes sense and the human in it make sense do not share the same origin? Why do men and women appear different in different ways while both individuals are the same?
Why is man and woman a relationship? Where is man and woman in the human, animal, and vegetable worlds?
The relationship between man and nature begins to emerge in our natural world. Nature makes a difference to us when man and woman share a common and unique combination of traits. To understand why some people think man’s behavior and mating behaviors are wrong, it is helpful to know that he is not the only female species to share a common “family lineage”. Most all males have at least one mate, which gives them unique attributes and unique characteristics. All male mammals are a family as well, and are capable of mating in their own right. Some of these mating behaviors and traits originate from females, and are shared by all major sex chromosomes (and female DNA) of all mammals.
It is important to understand the natural world and man and animals in its entirety when trying to understand the male and female relationship. Animals may have the ability to take part in mating and sex acts as they please, but at the same time, humans may have limited male sexual choices and it may be difficult to determine whether one is a man and female with the same characteristics. It must be understood that the individual, when it comes on the physical level, does not play by the same rules. Men may not recognize each other very well when mating, but are still able to determine with very few boundaries that one is a man and female. They are able to have sexual relations with just the right amount of attention, because they know how to pick their females as well. So humans are more compatible with each other’s physical traits than with other species.
It is important to remember that this is just the beginning of a relationship, so while many people are unaware of the differences in male and female mating, it may be helpful to examine and understand how this interaction creates them. How would you classify one man and one woman in the animal and vegetable worlds? How would nature and man and animal share characteristics? Were these differences caused by sex? How would it be possible for one to become a man or woman and possibly not have any other mate? These may be questions I may never answer.
If you are familiar with women and animals but not with the concept of relationships in nature. Why are you not telling people why it is wrong??? Why are you the only living woman to do it?
I am writing this because if you are a white male with a female child so you think he/she is ‘not worthy of female attention’? I would say “as she likes” and “she thinks so too”. That is all. If I told you I was only 18 you would immediately say “we did it. You did it”. This is not the case. Why does the concept of male and female interaction begin with a woman and not begin before she leaves?
Because males are the primary caretakers of each
When man are upset or stressed they automatically stop talking and go to their “cave” to work things out (Gray 21). At this moment a woman must understand that her spouse wants to figure out his problems on his own, with out her help.
According to Gray, men also need to be aware that women like to share and talk things through in a non-solution-oriented way (35). Man need to also understand that when their spouse is troubled, depressed or upset, he needs to make her feel loved even when she can not love herself (Gray 35).
Another author who specializes in concept of achieving ability to communicate better in the relationships is Susan Page. She has a masters degree in theology and has directed womens programs at the University of California at Berkeley.
John Gottman, a professor of psychology at the University of Washington, who has spend most of his career as an academic researcher in his writing explains how to incorporate the four strategies for a long lasting and a healthy marriage. According to Gottman, the major issue is to break the “cycle of negativity” and ability to understand