Mother And Her Child
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In the United States and in many other countries when women get pregnant, they often talk about the immediate bond between mother and her unborn child. However, in other countries and cultures, women dont feel a bond with their unborn children until the child is born healthy, happy and grows to a certain age. There are people who think the issue of bonding with your child is culturally based and others argue that this bonding takes place naturally. While Nancy Scheper-Hughs argues that mother-infant bonding is culturally based and occurs over a period of time, Lucinda J. Peach refutes this argument by saying that there is an immediate and natural bond between a mother and unborn child. I will compare and contrast these two articles and their arguments of whether the mother-infant bond is culturally based or takes place naturally.
There are many differences between the issue of mother-infant bonding in Nancy Scheper-Hughs article and in the article written by Margaret Ehrenberg. One of the main differences is how the mother-infant bond is viewed between the two. In Nancy Scheper-Hughs article called Lifeboat Ethics: Mother Love and Child Death in Northeast Brazil, she views the mother-infant bond as solely based on the culture. In this article, when womens babies die, either at childbirth or shortly there after, the mothers do not weep for them. Scheper-Hughs says “It would be wrong, a sign of a lack of faith, to weep for a child with such good fortune” (Brettell & Sargent 2005 pg.36). This “good fortune” refers to a saint coming and taking the child up to Heaven. The mother-infant bond in this culture is only evident when the infant either grows up to be a certain age or when the baby is born healthy and is a “fair and robust little tyke with a lusty cry.” Nancy Scheper-Hughs believes that the bond between a mother and her baby is based on the culture and on cultural norms. When Nancy Scheper-Hughs was a Peace Corps volunteer, she came to a very small poor shanty-town in Northeastern Brazil. All the women that live in this little shanty-town believe the same thing. They believe that these babies that are destined to die from the moment they are born. And these women dont show sadness when they lose their child. In contrast, Margaret Ehrenberg, in the article by The Role of Women in Human Evolution, argues that the mother infant bond is present at birth and therefore exists naturally. She thinks that, from the moment a woman finds out she is pregnant, there is an immediate strong connection between the mother and her growing fetus. This bond or connection, essentially at full strength when the child is born, grows even stronger as the mother/child relationship develops.
In reading these articles, I have come to the conclusion that there are only a few similarities between these two authors views. One similarity is the fact that both women feel bonds to their infant. I think that the women in Brazil do feel a bond to their babies in utero but, as the baby is born, that bond is severed because of the unconscious