The Scilence That Binds
Essay title: The Scilence That Binds
The Silence that Binds
Non-verbal communication is the invisible string that holds our culture together. Often non-verbal communication is described as communication without words; non-verbal communication refers to all aspects of a message which are not conveyed by the literal meaning of words. This differs from unconscious communication, which may be verbal or non-verbal. Both written and spoken communication can be non-verbal. The main types of Non-verbal communication are chromatics, kinesics, paralanguages, proxemics and semiotics. Culture, gender and social status all influence nonverbal communication.
Non-verbal communication is the most commonly used portion of the process of exchanging information. Up to ninety percent of all communication is non-verbal.
Non-verbal communication tells you to stop at a red octagonal sign to protect you from a dangerous intersection. It is how your eleven month old child is able to tell you she is in desperate need of a bottle or a nap. Non-verbal communication is everywhere around us all the time. The very concept of time revolves around non-verbal communication. The clock sitting in our courtyard right outside the window is communicating with me now, informing me that I am late for my History class. All of life revolves around non-verbal communication.
According to an article published by Shaver, Schwartz, Kirson, and Oconnor in The Journal of Personality and Social Psychology facial expressions are recognized universally for their meanings. A smile indicates happiness while a grimace shows displeasure. The impact and use of facial expressions however, is culture bound. This becomes clear when comparing high context cultures of the far-east with the low context cultures of the western world. In china facial expressions are used far less and hold less impact than they do in America. The emphasis in communication within the Chinese culture lies primarily within the context of the spoken message itself. These differences can lead to misinterpretations between cultures. A Chinese man would have a much harder time reading the nonverbal signals of an American than he would a fellow Asian.
Non-verbal communication is fluid in nature, changing form from one moment to the next. Shifting from a solid line painted on the road to the symphony written by Mozart in the fourteenth century. Non-verbal communication can be something as complex as a space probe sent to the outermost reaches of the Milky-way; or, something as simple as a smile on the face of your new born daughter. In fact, there are so many different forms of non-verbal communication, that there have been numerous books written on the subject. So many books, that one could fill a library with works on this one subject alone. It is for this reason that I will explain my interpatation of non-verbal communication to you in the form of a narrative
Before I walk with you through a day in my life, I must first tell you what non-verbal communication is to me. In the world I perceive, non-verbal communication is the way we express ourselves; from the day we are conceived in the womb, to the day we are forgotten. Nonverbal communication is that tiny piece of fabric holding the boundaries of our culture tougher, shaping the rules and perception of our society.
This morning as I woke I heard the alarm click right before it begins to chime its wake up hymn. The birds singing by my window told me that it was to be an outstanding day. The sun was shining, the wind was whispering through the trees. As I look back to the clock it tells me that my daughter will awaken soon and I need to get out of bed