Discover Ur Real Sexuality !
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I just dont get what all the fuss is about boys? Kissed a male mate just to see what its like? Do you have a crush on someone the same sex as you? All these are signs that you could be a gay. Or you could be 100% straight.
Or somewhere in between. Sorry, its not that simple.
Figuring out your sexuality isnt a matter of gathering evidence, its about how you feel. Its normal to be sexually attracted to the same sex sometimes – it doesnt necessarily mean youre gay.
But if youve felt this way very strongly for a long time, you could be bisexual or gay.
Whats in a name?
Sexual orientation (or sexuality) is about who you have sexual feelings towards.
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Heterosexuals (people who are straight) are people who only fancy members of the opposite sex.
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Homosexuals (people who are gay) only fancy members of the same sex. Girls who fancy other girls can also called lesbians.
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Bisexuals are attracted to both sexes.
However, as a teenager, your sexual feelings can be very intense and its completely natural for your attention to jump between different people – and different genders – quite frequently.
This can be confusing. It can also be exciting. Enjoy and explore at your own pace. Sexuality doesnt develop overnight, so dont be in too much of a hurry to put a label on yours.
Youre not alone
Its commonly believed that at least one in ten people is gay.
On top of that, its