Teenager Relationship with Their Parents
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Every teenager goes though those times in life when they cant get along with their parents. They have a love hate relationship. Parents might not approve certain people you date or who you hang around. As a teenager you just think that they are just being mean but once you get older you realize the real reason. I had gone those problems with my mom when I was in high school. I was in a relationship with a guy name Mario and it was ok in the beginning but one day everything just turned bad.
Mario was your typical pretty boy that everyone liked and was a basketball and football player. I really wasnt impressed by those things; he was just cute so I wanted to give him a chance. Everything was ok in the beginning. We fell in love and our families approved of each one of us so things were great in our lives. I would go to his games and support him. We felt like Bonnie and Clyde because there was no separating us.
After a while things began to get shakie. Everything that we thought was perfect began to fall apart. My mom began to see that things were not as good as we tried to make them out to be. He had begun cheating on me. We was talking less and spending less time with each other. I knew eventually he was going to break up with me but I tried to do everything I could to change his mind. At the end of the day that didnt work we broke up and I was crushed. It affected me mentally and physically. My attitude changed, I started losing weight because I wasnt eating, and I was just ruined.
My relationship with my mom was always good. I could always talk to her about anything. But for some reason when it came to Mario and I relationship it was a touchy issue. She would always try to spark up a conversation trying to get the 411 about our relationship but it was like I had shut down. I never wanted to talk about it because it always bought feelings back that I didnt want to feel. Even when it came to other issues I really just didnt want to talk to her about them. We had hit rock bottom everything was an argument with us now.
After being broke up for about six months Mario and I decided to start back talking. That wasnt pleasing to my mom at all. She had begun to dislike him. By her doing so made me want to be with him more than ever. I began lying to her. I would tell her I was going to spend the night at my friends house and would sneak and spend the night with him. This began to be almost an every weekend thing. One day my mom caught me. She did not not approve of going to spend the night with boys. She was so upset with me it seems like she was on fire. By me doing that she started hating him. But that didnt stop me I continued to go over his house almost every weekend and spend the night with him. I got caught a few more times but one time she was fed up. The argument was so tense to the point where she put me out. I was to the point where I didnt even care